I hadn’t even been on a date in well over a year, and this semester is the first where I have been over my fear of asking women out. After asking between a dozen or two out over the course of a month I finally landed a date. We go out, she’s extremely talkative, which is great since I’m a little on the quieter side. After the date I invite her to my place for a little while and I felt really comfortable so I asked her to spend the night. She does and we have great communication regarding what we want from each other and it’s just great. We have sex, cuddle each other all night and have sex again in the morning. Her friend asks her to pick her up from work and I walk her to her car and she tells me she wants to see me again and to text her.

Here we are, I’ve not seen her since, I try and schedule times for us to hang out or go out, but it seems like she’d rather ignore those questions. I’m confused and I think to myself that I want to just call her and say: I’m looking for something consistent here, and I don’t feel like my out reaches are being taken seriously or acknowledged.

She’s expressed she’s incredibly busy and yeah I get that, but it also seems like to me that you can find the time if you really wanted to. It went from 0 to 100 and now back to 0 and I don’t really know how I want to move forward

Any advice or suggestions would be nice, I expressed on the date that I’m looking for a girlfriend.

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