What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done and would you do it again?

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1. Deciding to not have friendships anymore and consequently cutting all of my friends off. I would do it again.

2. Dealing with postpartum for almost a year after my youngest was born. Would I do it again? For my son as I know him? Yes, 1000%. For some new random baby? Absolutely not.

3. Be married to a drug addict. And loooooool no.

4. Be a parent and no way 😂

5. Going to work full time. I gotta keep on keep on keeping on.

6. Watching my spouse waste away with cancer. I’d do it again but would definitely do some things differently. Should have asked/accepted more help from family and friends. Should have gotten therapy during and after.

7. 16 years into raising a child.

   He is the perfect kid for me and he will be my one and only.

8. My phd and fuck no. Academia is a cult

9. Getting hit by a drunk driver and almost dying in a car accident. I wouldn’t really recommend it.

10. Telling my grandma it was time to let go, and yes I would, she was toughing it out and suffering because of it

11. Moved across the world to another country by myself and yes, I would 100% do it again.

12. block my mom and yeah probably

13. Learn to put me first. Even if it meant someone else would be sad or mad they didn’t get their way. I was brought up with the mentality of don’t be selfish and help others even at the expense of yourself. And I would definitely do it again. It help me weed out a lot of toxic relationships and over all I am more happy. I deserve to be happy too.

14. Infertility and In vitro fertilization. I wouldn’t wish the emotional pain on my worst enemy

15. Moving back home after leaving my abusive ex. My ex was very physically abusive we met when we were 16 and we were together until 18. I packed my shit in the middle of the night and I made the call to my mom and she and my brother drove in the middle of the night to come get me. Making the decision to move back home was hard because I was trading one prison for another. But I would do it all over again because if I didn’t do it and I stayed like I almost did I’m 100% sure I would be dead right now.

16. Asking for help for my mental health. I fell into a hole I couldn’t get out of. I entered an outpatient program.

17. Giving birth. I did, twice.

    If I got pregnant again I would give birth but it would stress me out as it got closer bc I do remember that it really hurt.

18. I would say it’s between buying a home, getting my PhD and changing my name.

    I would buy another home but definitely would not do the other two again.

19. An ultramarathon or an ironman 140.6 race.