How can you tell if you are just enjoying talking and/or hanging out with a friend, and already having feelings for a friend?

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1. It’s usually a feeling in my stomach. Compare how you feel with this person to how you feel around one of your mates. If it’s the same, then she’s a friend.

2. If you find yourself wanting to spend more time with a friend, or thinking about them when you are not together, you may be developing feelings for them. You may also start to feel differently around them, like you get butterflies in your stomach when they are around.

3. Define “Feelings”.

   I have feelings for all my friends, that’s why they’re friends. Are you talking romantic? erotic? You can tell bc erotic or romantic feelings feel different than friendly affection that evolves from interaction.

4. If you have to question whether you do. It’s going to be your first instinct.

5. Wanting to cuddle and kiss them is a pretty good indication

6. If your dick starts to tingle, then you are having feelings for that person.

7. Think how you’d react if she found a boyfriend. If you’d be happy for her, than you simply see her as a friend and nothing more. Otherwise, you see her as more than just a friend.