I need help. Am I bi? Do I tell my wife 25M

3 comments

1. Bicurious, technically, you aren’t bi until after the act, and also if you enjoyed the act with another man…if you do something like that, then have an attraction toward men yes you are Bi.

2. Well you’re definitely the definition of a cuck. I’d say you might be bi. I would never tell my girl this because over time she might start thinking “Maybe he wants to watch me get fucked because he wants to see someone do a better job or watch someone try new things”. If you want to watch someone do a better job so you can take notes, it makes you look weak. If you want to watch the guy try something new on your girl and she likes it, that will make her want to try new things outside of the relationship. She’ll be wondering what else she’s missing out on. You basically wanna open Pandora’s box.

   Because even if she’s not thinking that and those thoughts never into her mind, she might talk to her work friends about it. And if she talks to someone like me (even though I’m a guy.) I’ll be the one to put those thoughts in her head. Not even to be malicious, but because that’s what I’m thinking myself. And that alone will affect your relationship and I (her random friend/ coworker) will genuinely never know that my view point destroyed your relationship. But it wouldn’t even be my fault, it will be yours for putting yourself in that position.

3. Just be honest with her and feel it out. If she likes the idea that’s great. If she doesn’t then you move on from that fantasy. Sexual relationships are built on trust and openness. The day has come where people really don’t care about sexuality. It’s some kind of spectrum and you can’t control what you are into. I say you just tell your woman what you like and openly discuss it( probably when you two are all revved up) good luck my guy. Just be open and let it happen. No sense in spending your life wishing for something that will genuinely make you happy. Life’s too short even for sexual things

   Hope this helps