Right now I’m in college, and none of the people that I see in my campus interests me. I mostly stay home and work from home though, so it makes sense that I do not meet more people outside my comfort zone. But lately, I think to myself, maybe I need some me- time. Because there’s a few issues about myself that I need to work with, for example anxious avoidant attachment, in which I often stuck in this tendency of “push and pull” pattern, which I noticed in my past relationship.
This is a serious issue that becomes a huge barrier in being intimate and vulnerable enough to share parts of myself with others. Do you guys also notice how your attachment pattern affect your romantic relationship? Please share your stories 🙂