He told me he’s friend said he could do better than me, he likes muscly woman

I (26f) met this guy (23m) on tinder at first it was a hookup or fwb for him very casual but I fell for him the first day and I guess he started liking him cause now we’re bf and gf and he even want to introduce me to his family.

I used to be very overweight a couple years ago, I’ve been losing weight no toy because I started eating healthier and believe it or not I’ve always been very active cause my work is very physical and I don’t have a car so I walk everywhere, but I started to hit the gym and do 1-2hr of cardio and just legs cause I don’t like muscly look.

My bf has gotten comfortable and we were discussing going out to eat that I was buying, he said he wanted it to be somewhat healthy and I said he could pick, that I eat whatever, and he said: see, if you didn’t eat anything you could be more fit. It broke my heart, I told him that I eat whatever but I always watch my calories intake like my nutritionist told me, that I meant to say I could eat anything, like chicken or sea food… etc, and also that I go to to the gym that I’ve been losing weight I just don’t like the weights cause I don’t know how to and also I don’t like the look he said he funded muscles very attractive 🙁 but I was fine. We had a light discussion but at the end I agreed I should go back to the gym cause I stopped for a while because of my thesis. I was extremely sad but didn’t let it show much.

I went to the gym for a week straight and even started doing more weight on my legs that I used to do, I hate to admit that I did because of him, I had to stop going the next week cause with my thesis I knew I wouldn’t be able to go everyday. And he makes the comment that if I was still going, I think he knows I didn’t cause he has my location but the question rubbed me the wrong way. He said he just wants to know cause his a gym rat. I jokingly accused him that he was one of those dude that pick up a gf that they think they can change in the gym, he denied it.

I started going this week again and asked him a bit about how much weight he does and how impressive it was, I’m at the gym and he dents me a video of a hot momma, skinny muscly Asian, and he said that’s only because I’ve mentioned I didn’t know how to start, I check the ig and he follows her, I don’t know if that’s normal but he prolly loves her body one that I most like never have. Before this I’ve gotten drunk and say how I think I’m so ugly and he assured me I’m not, but when I was feeling better he tells me his friend said that he could better. Why would he say that to me at that moment when I was breaking down from my insecurities, I cried even more and started laughing, I might be insane. We even hooked up with how crazy I was being, he reassured me the whole time. But it seemed manipulative, and now he send me that video…..

What do you guys think?