Since I became single 6 months ago I have been approached by multiple people to go on dates or just hook up. I feel like I’m at a point where I’m ready to start seeing other people just to see what I like and let off some steam. I’m getting approached almost everyday and it feels like the universe is telling me to get back on the saddle š
I’m struggling with feeling bad for “using” people while I’m trying to figure out what I want. Is 6 months too soon? Should I take sex off the table and just stick to dating and hanging out?
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honestly what i do is implement a ā3 date/hangoutā rule for when it comes to sex, it gives me time to see if i like their vibe, get to know them better, and just to get more comfortable with them. iāve had guys try and when i state the rule i have they respect it! it may not be that way for everyone but it shows that iām not just there for a hookup! if you are just there for a hookup thatās fine too!
Tell who every your prospective date(s) is what you are willing to offer so s/he knows from the beginning what to expect.