Your date is asking you which goals you are working on, what is your response?

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  6. Currently it’s stability, got a good job going and feeling comfortable but want to make sure it’s long lasting and not volatile.

  7. Aggressively paying off student loans and looking to upgrade a professional license so I am eligible for advancement.

  8. I’d probably say something regarding a fitness goal, getting my degree and becoming financially independent

  9. Quit sizing me up, I’m not a resume.

    The good ole indirect access to your portfolio.

    3 things men should keep private: money, sex, and your next move.

    Counter her question and wait for an answe. It’s usually….”nothing” that’s why she needs your goals.

    Talk about hobbies only. Your dick is not a hobby unless your bewteen 13 to 30.

  10. I am learning the piano,

    I am currently woking on getting my real estate license

    I am working on getting my AGILE certificate

    I am working on losing weight to showcase more muscle

    I am working on bettering my emotions

    There are always things to work on yourself. Its all about continuous development

  11. They dont. If they ask that take it that you are projecting that you have too much time (probably because you have too much time,)

  12. I would ask her which goals give her the most bang for the buck of mine and I would focus on those

  13. Ambition is sexy. You gotta really sell it though, so devise a 5-year plan with plausible goals. A common one would be to get an MBA and move into a higher administrative role. Or say you’ve been eyeing leadership positions and interviewing whenever they show up on your network radar.

    Don’t admit to plugging away at the same job for 9 years, getting fed cost-of-living adjustments whenever your boss-god feels generous.

  14. Finishing my degree,
    Get better at the piano,
    Buying my first car,
    Starting Mai Thai in order to get fit,
    Finish my fantasy novel series before I turn 30,
    Move to Ireland when I become a midlevel to senior dev

  15. The same ones I’m always working on.

    * Finding a partner.
    * Getting in better shape/better looking so I can increase my odds of finding a partner.
    * Getting a promotion or a better job so I can increase my odds of finding a partner.
    * Going out and doing social stuff so I can increase my odds of finding a partner.
    * Saving and investing so I can grow my wealth, improve my financial security, and increase my odds of finding a partner.

  18. Retirement.

    Maybe a house project.

    Planning some future travel.

    Figuring out if I want to keep pursuing her and do some fucking later.

  19. Avoiding people who think I should be performing for them.

    I’ll get this one, enjoy the rest of your meal.

  22. “I think about it this way, there are 3 Fs that matter in life. Family, Faith, and Football. Family-wise, I’m interviewing potential mothers for my future kids, that’s what we’re doing right now. Faith-wise; I’m working my way through the diaries of the prophets in the latter days. Football-wise; admittedly we aren’t doing as well as when I first bought my minority stake, but I think the Packers will return to our winning ways in the next couple of years. You?”

  27. Honestly, I’m working on finding myself. I spent quite a few years not knowing who I was or what I wanted. So right now my goals are to:
    -Pay off debt because my credit cards are higher than I’d like them to be. (Not sure if that should come up on a first date but it’s a goal)
    -Enroll in a Spanish class to become fluent and get a certification.
    -Become more knowledgeable of my job’s resources and products (started back in mid July).
    -Explore more hobbies and start new ones (just finished a beginner tap dance class).
    -Get better at saving money and start investing.

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