So, she told me she had sex with this guy and apparently, when she was on top and stopped, she realized everything was soaking wet, so she asked the dude “Wtf happened” to which the dude replied “Oh you came like twice lol”
She said she had a great experience with the dude and that’s she thinks the dude is 20/10, he fuckes her the right way, but she says she didn’t feel *something* when she came
Is that weird? I’m a dude so I got Lil idea about it since my exgf would twitch and “feel emptied” when she came so that’s pretty much all the experience I know about
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It sounds like she didn’t really come. She’d probably know if she had.
She released some fluids somehow (I had that happen) and the guy thought she came because of that.
My vote is that he heavily stimulated her gspot and she gushed. This happens to my wife and I all the time. I love it for what it’s worth. Anyway, your friend didn’t have an orgasm.
She probably just squirted.
Women can squirt without cumming, and cum without squirting.
Squirting is not the same thing as orgasming. For some people they happen simultaneously, but for many people they do not.
You are the authority on whether you had an orgasm or not. Other people will not have as accurate a read on that.
Yeah, no, she didn’t. If she had, she wouldn’t need to be told. Wetness doesn’t mean orgasm, and some men think every single moan is an orgasm.
Is it possible that he came inside her and kept pushing through his refractory period? …. and was too embarrassed to say he came early…
She would KNOW if she had orgasmed, it’s kinda hard to miss!! Don’t let this idiot guy tell her what her body did/didn’t do.
She likely had the right angles and pressure and pleasure to squirt.
Squirting does NOT equal orgasming. One can happen without the other.
she pissed plain and simple
There is a spot called the a spot that, when stimulated, can lead to A LOT of lubrication. Too much sometimes. Speaking from experience. You probably just stimulated that spot. It is near the anterior cervix
Sorry, not you…your “friend”
She didn’t orgasm. She would know-it’s not something you’re not sure of. You feel it for sure. The wetness is likely just lubrication from arousal.
I keep seeing posts here about women having an expectation of lots of liquid ejaculate during orgasm like men. I don’t know where it’s coming from but I didn’t think sex education could get even worse but it has. Some women squirt with and without orgasm but it’s not the “norm”. 🤷♀️
She didn’t orgasm.
I get really wet during my ovulation and sometimes during sex I get super excited and it feels like I peed all over my partner. Maybe that also happened for her. But if she had an Orgazam, believe me she would know.
Oooh, yeah, this has happened to me.
Early on in my sexual life I’d get all the physical signs but zero feel-good feelings. No chemical response, no hormonal flood. Like, could have been gazing out the window in a daze kind of nothing happening. Confused the dude I was with because my body was doing the thing, but my mind wasn’t!
Definitely not an orgasm, but some weird intermediary.
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Squirting/gushing isn’t an orgasm, they are just usually really close together.
She did not cum. It’s that simple.
She probably didn’t come, she might have squirted or gushed, those can happen without an orgasm happening at the same time.
He told her she came twice and she just didn’t notice? I wish I could be that confidently delulu.
I’d be willing to bet she gushed. Especially in that position, the dick is constantly hitting the gspot. I literally soak my FWB multiple different times when I’m on top. If he’s into her gushing on him and she’s comfortable with it, a cool fucking trick (that worked on me anyways, it may not on her) is I would occasionally sit with my pussy hovering over his dick and he would take the head and rub my clit hard with it and my pussy turned into a goddang uncontrollable fire hydrant. I literally couldn’t stop it. He was almost half drowned by the time we were done. It’s super hot for him (and me but more for him) and it’s real easy and quick to slide right back onto the dick.
Maybe my tired ass is just stupid but is it possible she was numb down there? Like you know when you sit with one leg over on the other knee and bounce the bottom leg up and down the top leg falls asleep?
Humm pretty impossible to not feel. First and only time I squirted I creamed first and the guy kept going but when the squirt came out it didn’t feel like when I creamed but still felt good, like a warm when I sneeze and my period blood comes out too, but the difference was I felt something better and not a disgusted face
that dude is so incredibly confident wow
Do people know cum and a orgasm is 2 different things. I have had an orgasm plenty of times without cumming, and I will say whenever I did “squirt/cum” I never actually felt it. Now a orgasm is sometning you feel sure. Its like a shock wave of a great sensation build up that just released all at once. Maybe you were just super wet and he assumed you squirted or something.
She sounds sexually inexperienced and he sounds cocky and like hes been lied too and watches too much porn. You’ll *know* when you have an orgasm as a female. It’s impossible to miss. You feel it. Almost all through your body.
Ahh this is normal!! I’ve heard my friends and people say it feels like nada.
So, she didn’t orgasm.
My most recent ex would make me squirt, without orgasming. I didn’t even know it has happened until we noticed all the fluid. Sounds like that’s what happened.
And that they are both woefully lacking in sex education specifically around the female orgasm.
If her legs didn’t shake, she didn’t cum
From personal experience, I would say that she just had some lubrication happening from the act of being aroused and everything. If she didn’t feel that she came, I would say that she would need some sort of clitoral stimulation. I’m the same way, I can’t cum unless I have some clitoral stim with a vibrator. It’s very common and not any sort of problem or anything it just means that her body may be different than other women’s.
It means she came but didn’t orgasm. Theyre not the same for women