Last week my partner shot his load without feeling like he has had an orgasm. He was confused, felt robbed, threw in the towel and went to bed.
Today it happened again, and he was a bit worried that he’s got an issue now. I suggested that it was a ruin and he could probably carry on if he wanted. He was still super horny because he didn’t get the satisfaction, so jerked off a bit and was hard again almost immediately. About 2 minutes later he shot a huge load. Way more than I have ever seen him shoot. It just kept coming and coming, and this time he did feel the orgasm.
I’ve not experienced this before and neither has he. Not really sure what to make of it.
Any idea why he’d start accidentally getting ruined orgasms?
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Robbed by whom?
I personally had moments where I ejaculated but didn’t have an orgasm until about 2 or so minutes afterwards. Kind of like when you’re watching a movie, but the sound doesn’t line up with the lips. It’s kind of delayed. Have you guys tried not stopping after ejaculating and just keep going to see what happens? Are you guys experimenting with any stimulants that increase sexual arousal? The nice thing is he’s obviously very into what you guys are doing. So that’s a good thing. One thing I would definitely try is set a good few hours aside for each other. Just go for it as long as you guys can and see what comes out of that.
How is he cumming? Like, what motions are you guys going through that leads to him cumming? I agree that it sounds like a ruined orgasm due to timing if he’s like, pulling out, taking off a condom, etc. Maybe he’s trying to edge/hold back from cumming and is failing at it. That’s generally what it’s like when the timing is off, it’s not quite an orgasm but cum comes out. If you’re able to work yourself back up and get the second orgasm right, it can be powerful. A huge load makes it sound like either he was edging or it’s just been a while since he came last.
Once is a fluke, twice is a coincidence. I wouldn’t call it a pattern yet.
Sound like he ejaculated without orgasm. Has he recently change any medications? Many antidepressants can mess with orgasm.