My girlfriend just told me about how she’s been wanting to try this, but I have no idea where to start. We fucked earlier today and I said a couple of things such as “you’re my slut” and similar things but I do not know what else can be said. Any tips on dirty talk???

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  1. Things that can really help:

    Remember everyone is unique so what you need to learn is what really does it for her. Basically the hottest thing in the world is someone who learns all your kinks and then does them for you.

    Ask if she has examples of porn or erotica etc which she really liked where the vibes were good. If so that can give you a lot of ideas.

    Another good idea is to sit and fantasize together. Just be creative and talk about it, “would it be hot if I said x? do you like when I do y?” etc. Fantasizing together is low risk and can build up a lot of sexual tension which can pay off later. It’s also really great for establishing consent for more intense stuff.

    With degradation in general one trick that can help is to roleplay. For instance if you were a king and she were a slave girl given to you then would it be easier to know what to say? The words can come more easily if they are congruent with the character rather than with your everyday selves.

  2. Have a conversation about it beforehand see if there’s anything that she’s not ok with just in case, then later say whatever comes to mind in the moment, and try not to hold yourself back. I love when my guy calls me his “toy”, “little cock sleeve”, “sex slave” just as a few examples. I also love when he says “who owns this pussy?” And I have to moan out “you do” 🥵 It might be awkward at first if you’re not used to it, but the more you do it the more you will get into it. Have fun ✌️

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