Scared to let go

So I started dating someone a few weeks ago but we knew each other for over ten years. He was married most of the time and I either had boyfriends or single either way he was married and I always respected that. He has been divorced for about two years and he ended up reaching out.

Now we get along great. He is super sweet, funny, caring. He was on vacation and took the time to send me flowers and a card being on the other side of the world, literally.

You can tell he genuinely likes me but I have my guard completely up. I’m scared to fully let him in. Don’t get me wrong the more time we spend together the more I do like him and want him in my life. But I’m so scared to get hurt. I’ve been down this road before and it just sucks when you finally let it all out and the person doesn’t either feel the same or they weren’t looking for anything in the 1st place.

He has his own business, 10 years older than me. Wants to retire to Thailand.

I have my own plans in the next two years to move to Georgia.

Should I give him a chance and just let go and see what happens? Or is my guy trying to tell me something I don’t know…

Thanks