Title given. And to be clear I’m not talking about obese women. Just women with some extra. Idc if they have an outward stomach, some extra arm fat, broad shoulders. I think it’s beautiful. I like having some extra to cuddle with. “More cushion for the pushin” as they say.
I used to be anxious about outside factors. What my friends thought. Even what strangers think. Why would I even care about that? My friends have never given me shit about the women I sleep with, and I sure as fuck shouldn’t care about what random ppl think. I know for a fact I’m not the only guy who’s into the “thiccness”.
The agenda for most of Reddit puts down bigger women. But everyone deserves love for real.
It’s been an inner struggle through most of my adulthood that I need to date someone who other ppl find universally attractive. But that in itself is toxic. It’s time I’ve come to terms with what I’m into and stop denying and lying to myself. It only makes things more complicated.
So here I am. Accepting the reality of my interests and what I’m attracted to.
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Man I feel you. I feel like people have judged me for my interest in bigger women but i dont give a fuck anymore! They aren’t with her I am. They don’t know how it makes me feel and I dont care. Besides thicker women have so much more to offer in my opinion. Its just a preference but don’t be ashamed just enjoy it because the moment you do it will feel way better
As a chubby woman, the comments around weight on here can be disheartening. But then I remember I can put my phone down and the comments don’t reflect my personal experiences in real life. Your preferences are nobodies business but your own
If you like curvy women why not have a relationship instead of just sleeping with them? I think curvy women are very attractive.
Nothing wrong with that at all & actually probably a plus for you in the dating scene, the majority hunts for the slim ones it seems.
You are describing most women imho
Reddit loves to shit on bigger women, but I’ve never once had an issue finding a guy to love me/ sleep with me. They’ve all loved my body, and have never made negative comments. I’m not obese by any means but I’m def not skinny, or even thick, I’m for sure fat, but I don’t care that much (gained weight due to depression and suicide recovery) and just exist happily. Men that don’t want to be with me aren’t but there’s lots of men who want to be. It’s not that big of a deal to love someone outside of modern beauty standards, people are whole individuals with personalities and inspirations and goals and dreams that make up their person. That can be even more beautiful
Edit: chubby sexy by Robbie Tripp is funny- song by a husband that went viral for just loving his chubby wife lol
It’s good that you have finally accepted that you have a type and there’s nothing wrong with that.
When I was heavier, there were a few guys who were into me. So I always knew Reddit men’s opinion didn’t matter. You like what you like. Doesn’t matter what others think.
I’m just shocked that anyone ISN’T.
Not you acting like you’re coming out as gay. The DRAMATICS.
Just own it. Who cares what people think. Just make sure someone is healthy.
What’s so wrong with extra? There are TONS of men that ONLY want BBW. You may want a tiny bit of chub but the men who really know how to pound it want heavy women. 😉 Skinny women don’t know what you are missing.
I like those women who are just thick all over and wear the skin tight jeans and button up shirt and the Roman sandals and call you hunny or peach lmaooooo
Come on home brother, there’s plenty of thick curvy girls to go around 😈
If I was a man or gay I’d love curvy sexy women. To me they are most beautiful.
Good 4 u!
same. i dont see wats up. granted i like women without extra too.
people are unique and beautiful in their own way.
really if ur beautiful ur not ugly, ugly runs deep down and it takes time to see.
seen some dolls out there that couldn’t even make me half chub and i dont want to assume thats what they tryna get outta guys but sorry i do.
Me to, pity that I live in Italy, 99% of women are Narcissistic BPD with weight issues when they’re already slim fuck this culture.
I’m thick all over and don’t have any issues pulling men that love my curves. But, most only want sex and I think it’s because they are embarrassed or ashamed as you mentioned. That makes me feel a certain way and it’s very disheartening. I am happy you are acknowledging your preference now and hope you continue to embrace it.
Congratulations 🎊! Your an adult and have realized what you like. That’s gonna bring you happiness 😁 If you don’t like tacos don’t eat them. Just love man, that’s all that matters. You’ll find what’s right for you. There’s nothing wrong with a little booty some thick thighs and a little tummy. Enjoy man.