We’re kinda kinky and include elements of BDSM. He is extremely hot and so I feel intimidated and naturally submissive. He likes to switch being dom/sub but I can’t seem to get myself to be dominant with him or get in that mindset at all. I think partly it might be because I feel less attractive than him whereas with other guys I felt pretty confident so I was the dominant one. I’m also afraid of disappointing him because he’s so good at being dominant…I’m worried I won’t meet his expectations.
Any advice on how to ease into being dominant when I feel so intimidated?
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This reminds me of that Robert California quote: Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power
Sorry I don’t have advice but I’m kinda dealing with this too a bit, hope someone else can be helpful in your comments 💚