To clear a few things up before I start.
We have a good/normal sex life, matching libidos and generally matching kinks/fetishes. Other aspects of our relationship are great.
We’ve always had a Domme/sub dynamic, it suits us both and other than the odd small talk in the moment he’s never mentioned chastity, Cuckold, hotwife activities to me.
He said after reading up on ‘locktober’ he liked the idea of wearing a cage while I masturbate or use a dildo. We’ve done things like that in the past without the cage and I’ve loved it as much as him.
I’m open to him trying it, but I’m not really sure where I goes beyond he wears a cage and watches me. I’d love some insight from those in the know.
TLDR: husband wants to wear a cage, where do we go from there.
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It doesn’t have to mean cuckolding or being a hot wife, unless that is also his/your desire. The cage keeps him from easily masturbating, you are the controller for his pleasure. He enjoys watching and probably pleasing you, but can’t do anything about his own pleasure unless you let him or want him to engage with you.
Try looking for some online. Where are you based?