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1. When in doubt, use more lube. It may also help you get used to the moment of insertion with progressively larger toys. Vagina’s don’t “get looser” or whatever, but you can most definitely train the pelvic floor and perineum to be more supple and stretchy to accept an extra thiccboi more easily. By consciously relaxing your pelvic floor during sex and massaging the perineum during masturbation, you should see an improvement. This is something that any good midwife will also recommend to a pregnant woman, as the reduction in the chance of a tear is dramatic when this has been done properly.

   Disclaimer: I don’t have a vulva but this worked super well for my wife.

2. Sounds like you just need to go through the bit of pain of getting it in then. Let him impale you. Few seconds of pain for all the pleasure to follow.

3. Use lube. My wife has the same problem when I first put it in. A good body friendly lube fixes it completely. Don’t forgo the forplay. It’s fun

4. Have you tried inserting when he’s less than fully hard, and so less than his full size?

   If both partners are willing and a little bit patient, it’s pretty easy putting a semi-soft penis into a vagina. A little movement once inside will definitely get him hard then.

5. I had the same problem with my guy since he’s very large all around, and it barely fit. When it did go in, I was in so much discomfort and pain. What helped me get through it was lots and lots of lube (ofc), a ton of foreplay, which you’ve done, and trying to relax and calm myself. I would always get really nervous when he was getting ready to penetrate, and that definitely didn’t help things.