Legitimate question: 38/m, and I’m horrible at dating. I keep making gaffes, turning women off, and I’m bad at it. I’ve been trying my whole life, and I’m in the same boat. I’d like a family one day, and I can never get past the first date. I’m getting old, and I’ll be older and less appealing as time goes on, even if I try to keep myself in good shape.
So, how do you get good at it? How do you do it? Because you either have to be good at it or get good at it, but if I keep messing up and apparently never learning, how do I improve?
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If you know you are messing up, stop.doing it again. Give examples of what you are doing wrong.
The problem with 38 never married types is they have a two decade history of hooking up and not settling down. Unless your divorced we tend to view you as a guy who will just sleep with us and move on.
Are you Autistic or something?… sounds more like mental barriers. 🤔
I’ve had a few good stories from the app. But getting older makes me not want to put in much work. I try and sift through them with conversation starters. If they make me laugh, it’s golden. Just gotta find a way to relax and be yourself. Don’t over think it and just try and have a good time.