Anyways. I’m a single dad. 24. The dad part really tends to drive most people away. But I love my son to death and he’s my everything. But anywho, I got out of a relationship in December, well she left me. We’ve been on and off since December of 2018 but this last time was it for us. I grew up with two parents who would constantly fight and argue about the dumbest things. And I watched it, and grown to it. Like to the point where I thought arguing was okay, and my ex (sons mom) loved me unconditionally and most of the time I just wouldn’t let her. Or I wouldn’t give her the attention or affection she wanted or needed. I would pick arguments or just be plain rude to her when I didn’t mean to be. She became unhappy and left, and I don’t blame her. She deserves to be happy because she’s a good mother and person. I just hate the way I treated her and how I acted. Now looking back on what I grew up around it really made me a terrible partner. Well since she left the last time I’ve been getting help and owning up to my mistakes. I’m not the same guy I was before. I can’t be the same guy I was before. For my son. For myself. For my future partner. There’s just honestly a lot I wanna get off my chest and this is just a piece of it. This is my first Reddit post! Hope everyone has a great night.
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It’s good you came to realization you were a shitty partner as most people lack self reflection. So good for you and I mean that.