I recently had a talk with my girlfriend who is aroused by being dominated in bed. She would like me to fulfill her fantasy more by “surprising her” with stuff, I guess. I have completely no experience in being dominant and I’m more used to gentle and affection-showing sex rather than dominance and submissiveness. She has left to study abroad for 6 months and I am visiting her soon, so I would like to comply with her request – any advice as per how I could do that would be greatly appreciated.

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  1. Start off with doing doggy style. And while you are doing that, push her back down into the bed. Even put your hand up close to her throat to assert dominance. See what she thinks of that. Don’t push too hard though, you don’t want to hurt her.

  2. I’ve found it much easier to be dominant if I focus on what I want to do. Make it about you and just start trying the things that make you feel good and be gently forceful to make her comply.

    If you cum too fast in doggy, then hold her in that position and pull out and finger her until you edge yourself back. Or let yourself cum early and then make her stay there and spank her until you’re hard again.

    Take a bit of time and consider what you want and go and do it! I think it’s that confidence and control that she’s craving.

  6. Treat her like an object. I know it is bad to treat a woman like that but I might help. If you treat her like a person you kinda worry about hurting her or if she’s not enjoying the deed. Don’t treat her as just an object meant to be broken, just an object for your pleasure and satisfaction and to be bred. Of course you’re not allowed to abuse that object but don’t allow her to take control, make her do your way. I don’t know

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