recently i’ve been thinking and i (17f) really don’t understand- why can’t i cum anymore? i take antidepressants so i guess that could explain why, but is it technique?? what’s happening??
when i was dating my first boyfriend, i was already on antidepressants yet i was able to finish by fingering
now i’m dating someone new, and it’s like they’re doing the same thing except i can’t whatsoever?? i don’t know what’s different and i feel so bad because it’s like he feels he’s not doing enough
is there a reason as to why i can’t? he does the come hither motion too so i thought it would work, but nothing seems to be working??
update: i’d prefer not to private message because it feels a bit weird on my end… i’m not excessively finding out why i can’t but more-so why my body is reacting so differently from the two experiences
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If it’s an SSRI, that would explain the anorgasmia. It’s a common sude effect. Ask your physician about switching to bupropion (Welbutrin). It’s an antidepressant that works on norepinephrine and dopamine.
Also, the longer you’re on the antidepressants the worse the effects. Ask your doctor for help mitigating the effects or trying a different medication.