Does dating get better for context I am turning 18 this december and I’m a senior in High school that has never been in a real relationship, I have been in a situationship that I didnt know was a situationship because that was the closest thing to love I had ever felt but It ended in me being led on and manipulated and been on 2 dates one with a childhood best friend that I reconnected with and then randomly after our first date she said that she needed space so I didnt hear from her for three days and then she said “While in theory your a perfect guy but because you dont drink or smoke I feel ashamed when I do it and I cant be with someone who makes me feel that way” She also said “I am a genuinely good guy and effortlessly funny” but ik there was some things I surely could have done better but this all happened when I told her my usual preference is someone who doesnt drink or smoke but she rarely did either of those so I told her it was cool that she did it and not to worry about it but I havent heard from her since and she was everything I wanted from a girl literally perfect and now she is gone. As for my other date she was fine and great but we just werent compatible which was fine we didnt waste each others time. Idk I’m just kinda mad because I wanted a high school sweetheart and I workout 4 times a week run 2 miles 6 days a week and am inshape and social and shot my shot 100s of times but it rarely works but I’m in high school so its wtv ig. My main question about this post is the realization of a woman isnt gonna wanna be with a guy who is going into law enforcement straight out of high school I plan on being a prison guard and I’m just worried I’m never gonna find anyone to love inside this career field and end up lonely and I do love myself dont get me wrong but I just am concerned I’ll never find someone in this career field. I also do understand I’m still a kid but this just deeply worries me for some reason because I have been preparing myself for this for the past 3 years as stupid as it sounds its something I know I’ve wanted to do for a while.
Tldr:Wondering if I will ever find love while being in a law enforcement career and will a woman accept me even though I have never had a real relationship with someone?
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Women date men law enforcement everyday.
I wouldn’t worry about your career preventing you from finding a partner. You’ll be doing things outside of work that will allow you to meet people. Dating apps are pretty big these days. Honestly, be glad that you’re not with a high school sweetheart. You need to see what the world has to offer outside of the high school bubble.