We had a party and her friends and I stayed the night. I expressed my jealousy about my gf putting the blanket over her friend and felt like it was something special between me and her. She understood and was kind about my feelings.

We planned a week in advance to go eat and she was going to buy some items for me, it was basically a little date. Last time we cancelled it since she wasn’t able to afford it at the moment. Anyways, when I got to her home she said her friends were coming over. I felt angry since we already had plans.

I went with her friends and her to have some tea. After I got home I decided I wanted to express myself and talk. I asked “Can we talk?” She said “About what?” I asked “Why couldn’t you set boundaries with your friends, we already made plans. I’ve set boundaries with my friends when I’ve had plans with you but you couldn’t do the same.” She then said “I told my friends multiple times but they just didn’t listen” that made me angry and sad so I excused myself to the bathroom and cried a bit. I went back and she asked “Do you want to go eat” I said “I’m not hungry” she went to shower and when she came back I wanted to leave since I was feeling ínstense emotions. I said “I’m getting an Uber” When she came back from her shower I noticed she wasn’t looking at me and she was speaking in a low tone. I need advice & helps pls.

P.s the same friend she put a blanket over is the friend we went with.

TLDR; I felt jealous of one of my gfs friends and expressed myself. We made plans one week in advance to go somewhere and she changed her plans the last minute due to being unable to se boundaries with her friends and the same friend I was jealous of is the one who came over. I feel angry.

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