pegging advice?

Hi, long story short, I am quite sexually experienced but only really on the more naturally submissive bottoming part. I have recently started seeing a girl who is mtf. i used to not think i had a dominant bone in my body until we started having sex and she asked me to domme her and i really did enjoy it. She brung up pegging and i am more than down, i have a strap on i was recommended to get by a friend in a size that she is experienced taking.

it is pretty big, about 8 inches, and my issue is when i put it on i was just like “what the actual fuck do i do now?” like idk how the operate this? idk how to actually use it at all?

i’m also a pretty small woman at 4’11 and she’s pretty tall at 5’11 and i can’t even imagine a position where i can comfortably do that?

I am just looking for general advice on how i can make this the best experience for her possible.

Any advice is appreciated and welcomed.

(edited because i accidentally typed ftm when i meant mtf)

3 comments

  1. It sounds like your partner is experience with anal if they wanted an 8 inch. Ask them how much warm up they want. For instance, they could be plugged while you put them to work with some oral.

    Doggy is more likely to work. You can have them take a wide stance, and maybe use a pillow to make it easier. Prone might also be an option. Missionary can work with a pillow or two under their bum with you kneeling between their legs.

    Start with slow strokes. Try to figure out your pace. As you get more comfy you’ll figure out how to go faster and harder.

  2. Get used to wearing it before you try it sexually. I heard someone say they practiced with a pillow once. Lots of lube. Go slow and communicate.

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