It’s bothered me since I was in my mid twenties that I’ve never been on a date but as I’m turning 36 its really starting to bother me. I have a good job, I have a real nice set of friends and hobbies. But at night I can’t help feel like I’m missing something. And I just feel like garbage, my friends kids are holding hands / kissing before me and I just feel like the worlds biggest failure. How do I answer the question “is this all i have to look forward to?”
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is there a reason you haven’t dated? if you haven’t already, you might find a good therapist to talk through this.