I (14m) have been dating for three years and want a break up with her not because she is a bad girlfriend just because I need a break and want to hang out with my friends more because I am constantly scolded for either not being interactive enough with her or just being a bad boyfriend ( I promise I’m not ) but I also don’t want everyone I know to hate me I go to a small private school where even in the summer time word travels crazy fast and I really don’t want to be berated with question and hate on why I broke up with her what should I do ( sorry for any bad grammer )
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Anyone who “scolds” you for hanging out with your friends is a bad girlfriend.
Why would everyone hates you? Also, you started dating at 11? This is weird.
Well, you should use the argument you gf used “dear, i feel like im not being a good bf and im too imature to keep going on this, you are nice and all, but i dont wanna hurt you with my childish behaviour, so I want to break up with you, so both of us can grow as a person”
>I (14m) have been dating for three years
ahahahaha
Both people should feel fulfilled in a relationship. Sometimes breaking up isn’t either person’s “fault”, sometimes there are external factors like your family scolding you, or sometimes it’s no reason at all.
But something I really wish I’d realized at your age is that it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Your only options aren’t “change nothing” and “break up”. You can adjust your schedule to make more time for your friends, you can be mindful of what activities you’re doing with her and have a conversation about whether she feels fulfilled with how you’ve been spending time together, stuff like that. You can change things. It’s going to be okay, best of luck
wait… 14??
you started dating at 14??? your a still a child (pretty much). Is this for real, or a troll?
If this is legit, PLEASE break-up and embrace being a pre-teen. Have fun and don’t get into another relationship until you are at least 19-20