Okay so hate is a strong word, but I’ve (30F) genuinely never liked making out. I’m fine with kissing on the lips, and even multiple lip kisses or cute longer kisses but I’ve never been really into the whole tongue/slobbery make outs, even as a horny teenager. The guy I’m casually dating now seems to not like it either. We never make out. We kiss on the lips/he kisses my forehead etc. but rarely do the tongue in mouth kind. At first I was honestly a little offended he didn’t seem to be into kissing me like that but then I thought, wait a minute.. maybe he’s just like me and doesn’t like making out lol. So yea I’m curious if anyone else feels like this or am I totally bizarre ?
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hey, this is coming from someone way younger so take it with a grain of salt, but it isn’t bizarre at all!!! someone people just don’t like that aspect and it doesn’t have to be the sole factor in determining a relationship. have you ever heard of asexuality?
it’s cool but being in someone else’s mouth isn’t my cup of tea either.
My cousin’s husband is like that. They’re both very sexual but, for some reason, he finds french kissing gross. So, they don’t.
I’m not overly fond of it myself. I’d rather roll my tongue around a dick and balls and suck. That’s the mouth action that I enjoy much, much more than French kissing.
Yeah, definitely not for me.
If you are not making out with your guy, you guys are not in loveeee…makeouts are the hottest things in a foreplay, and you are missing out
a long kiss can be nice, but making out for like 10+ secs is so uninteresting? idk how to explain it, but I just sit there and think, okay.. is this going to end? havent done it since
Couldn’t be me. Making out is the best part, we go at it for ages. Starts sweet and romantic, then moves to aggressive and passionate. It definitely hasn’t been this amazing with other partners though so it varies.
A big part is attraction level. The average person is just that. Average. I’m a very attractive male but I don’t really see myself like that tbh. Thankfully women have always wanted to make out with me.
In my earlier years I’d give anyone a shot due to my internal kindness. Always seeing the best in people etc. My most passionate kisses were with people who had the attractiveness + personality combo. Girls with personality I’d just want to make them feel good in the moment. Hot girls with regular personality would get hot passion until I realized they’re regular inside.
So yea maybe the physical attraction isn’t fully there?