Usually when my bf and I have sex, I start out in pain/he cant get in for a while, then I feel numb, then I feel pleasure, then it repeats. It feels like a small-medium cut. After sex I’m usually sore, not horribly but somewhat, and a lot of the time he injures himself during sex because there’s too much friction (his words). He finishes easily and I almost never do.
I like pain, to an extent, so who cares about that. The numbness though is an issue. **Lube does not seem to help because then I just feel numb completely**.
Whats going on lol? In the past I’ve also hurt my sexual partners
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Is it oil based lube? And perhaps you should see a gyno.
I would suggest seeing a pelvic floor physiotherapist, or a psychologist for vaginismus, or at least talking to your Dr about the pain and numbness.