Hey reddit, could really use some advice here.
So about 3 months ago me [19M] and the girl I was dating at the time [18F] broke up after dating for about a month and a half. We had a great time together but it ended up not working for a few reasons, but I definitely could have seen us in a relationship. When we ended things she really insisted on us staying friends so we’ve kinda just texted each other every now and then since we ended things.
FFW to last week, I started dating a new girl [18F], we went out 3 times and kissed on the 3rd date, things are going ok, but today my ex asked me if I wanted to meet up (for the first time since we ended things), and I’m really thrilled to see her, but I feel a bit guilty for going to see her, given that I’ve started seeing someone else.
Is it cheating if something happens between me and my ex when we meet? Keep in mind I’ve been seeing the new girl for only a week and we went out only three times and we definitely haven’t said we were exclusive, but we both said we were looking for a relationship.
Any insight would be great.
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I would think about the ex’s motives. Does she know your new girl? Could she be trying to break you up, or just dipping back in because she didn’t think you’d move on so fast? It’s not cheating if you’re not exclusive, but think about what she is doing and why. Also consider what you think it means if you hook up.
If it has the potential to create drama, maybe it’s not worth it. If everybody’s cool, go for it.
It’s not cheating, but it’s a very douche move against the other girl