How did it go when you said yes to someone who asked you out multiple times?

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1. Horrible. The guy obviously didn’t listen to my boundaries from the start and that kept going through the first date until I had to have my sister call me while fake crying saying that she’s in the hospital.

2. Poorly. They had already shown that they didn’t respect my decisions, and I should have realized the importance of that.

   I should have stuck to my original “no” response rather than giving in to their constant badgering.

3. Never ends well if I reject their advances and immediately walk away from them.

4. Bad. They were so incredibly possessive and jealous. They ended up being a real pain in the ass to break up with.

5. Really well. Ended up dating a while. We’ve now been friends for almost 30 years.

6. bad. only wanted me for sex 💀

7. I’m a slow burn kinda gal. My longest relationship was with someone who instantly liked me, understood I needed to get comfortable being friends first, and was persistent and waited and never naggy, disrespectful, or impatient. One of the best things to ever happen to me. Just because I wasn’t ready the first time he asked didn’t put an end to the idea of us.

8. My husband pursued me for 2 years before I finally said yes to letting him take me on a date. We’ve been together for 13 years.