As the title says, my wife of 2 years, she does not feel pleasure. When I penetrat her, she just feels something going in and out, and my penis is above average, and we get married a virgin
And she had this problem even after she gave birth. I’m frustrated even though she says, “That ok.” and I can get her off so good by eating her out but still not satisfying enough to me
Please, I need some advice?
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This is extremely normal. Most women don’t feel very much from penetration alone, they need some stimulation of their clitoris (the little nub at the top of the vagina, just above the urethra) in order to experience pleasure from sex. Its extremely sensitive, like the tip of a man’s penis, so be gentle when touching it, but next time you have sex try gently rubbing it or tapping it during. It should help your wife feel pleasure and enjoy the piv sex more.
You can also try different positions during sex, as there are some specific regions inside the vagina that can feel good when stimulated, most commonly referred to as the g-spot.
This is extremely normal.
>still not satisfying enough to me
Since your question is about your wife and how women get pleasure, try reframing your thought process to be about that instead of just about what’s satisfying **for you.** Nothing against you specifically, but a lot of people have been conditioned to believe the penis is the center of sex which seems to maybe be why you’re frustrated your penis doesn’t automatically give your wife pleasure just by being inside her. But try to decenter yourself and there’s still lots of ways your wife can have pleasure during sex.
I don’t know if this an answer your after but some women can feel pressure in their vagina. Have you used any fingers or toys?
My wife doesn’t feel much from my penis which is also above average but does enjoy the pressure she feels when I have a few fingers or a thick toy in her along with the clitoral stimulation.
You could see if she responds to more girth. If that’s the case, there’s a lot of ways to have fun with that.
Don’t know if it’s a thing for her and all women are different. My wife certainly responds to it. Might be worth a try.