My husband and I (10 years in now) are finally having this probably long overdue conversation. I have some trauma from when I was young and because of it I am unable to give him oral unless I am blackout drunk. Now that we are more grown that doesn’t really happen.
He is also short lasting. So, besides hand, how can I spice it up a bit and make things a little more exciting for him? Also no butt play type stuff.
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Have you tried lingerie?
You have a lot of limits. Have you considered therapy to try and work through those old traumas? It might be worth considering if you really want to change things in your sexual interactions.