What do you consider to be ‘Good sex’?

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1. Mind-blowing, wonderful and kinky sex with passion, being close to each other, valuing each others needs and pleasure. And yes, of course 1-2 orgasms.

2. Connection, enthusiasm, consideration of one another’s needs.

3. Passion. Both being turned on and in the moment. Lots of kissing and touching. The best sex Ive ever had is one where we are just focused on each other- orgasm isnt the end goal, just a happy surprise. I used to think it was hard and fast that was the best, but recently ive found that slow, steady and sensual is actually what gets me going. And that finish is amazing, every time.

4. Sex where we both cum. Don’t really care how.

5. Great connection with the person I’m with, good communication, similar kinks, and PASSION! Lots of passion!

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7. Where we’re both enjoying the journey, so present with one another’s bodies, consumed with desire, not even thinking about the outcome or and end goal at all, just savoring every ounce of one another like you never want it to end and you cannot be close enough.

8. Connecting with my partner and enthusiasm on both sides to bring the other pleasure. Orgasms are great, but you can still have great sex without reaching the finish line. Sometimes bodies just don’t want to cooperate lol

9. Enthusiasm, the right spots being hit, dirty talk, a number of orgasms.

10. Sex that feels immersive, exciting, and natural, with someone I’m attracted to, who is evidently very attracted to me, featuring enthusiasm, kink, oral, and sex toys.

11. Ok so I know the whole communication thing is great, especially when you’re in a serious relationship. But for me the best sex sessions I’ve had are the ones that are totally unexpected. Im talking like sat in a car talking and the passion is just too much. Idk I just like the spontaneous sex where there’s no pressure or preconceived idea about what’s about to happen.

12. passion, feeling safe with someone, a lot of kissing and ofc absolutely getting railed

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15. This is going to sound selfish maybe, but I’m mainly into men that are all about my pleasure and focus the whole time on making it good for me. It just turns me on so much when a man is all about me and my orgasm. But that attitude is what keeps me highly interested in fucking my partner every day. That’s the reason I initiate sex with my partner every single day, because he’s focused completely on what feels good for me. The only time we haven’t had sex is when one of us was sick or one of us was traveling or some other extenuating circumstance.

    A man who lasts long is a huge plus in my book too. Every now and then, I have those days where I want to go for a couple hours, so a man with stamina who doesn’t bust right away is sexy as fuck. Makes me feel like he’s made from a different breed, and that I’m so lucky to be bedding such a fit stud.

    Now combine all these traits with natural chemistry, and you end up with mind-blowing sex that I just can’t get enough of

16. The kind when you are just living your best life and a scenario comes up which leads to unexpected sex with people that didn’t necessarily expect sex either. Just a good unplanned fuck. That’s the best and results in a couple of pretty happy people.

17. It’s when you both take good care of each other and at the end of it both of you can honestly say that no part of your body feels neglected. Every part feels like it was worship in some way. And either you got to orgasm or you don’t really care because it was so enjoyable. To me that usually
    Means that by the end of I’m going to feels super happy and relaxed also I’m going to need a nap afterwards because I’m going to be to tired to move.

18. Lots of kinky BDSM and deep connection. Cumming is great but not be all end all.

19. When we cum at the same time.

20. Unexpected one with an unexpected one.

21. Communication, laughs while doing it but also rough points, wink.

22. Be tall (male or female idc), good head of hair, can’t keep their hands, eyes or mouth off of me and spit in my mouth. I’m good.

23. cum at least twice

24. No sex

25. Connection. Imagination. Playfulness. Having it be about both of us. Without the connection (for me anyway), you could be the Olympic version of Saint Valentine, and, well, who cares? I could also buy an amazing vibrator.

26. Passion with a female. Whatever that is

27. Intimacy!!! Can look or be different, quick, long, kinky, vanilla, as long as there is vulnerability, trust, and mutual desire to please one another, intimacy is the special sauce (hehe) that makes the difference between just cumming and epic. And heck, most of us can just make ourselves cum so might as well seek intimacy in sex.

28. both people caring most about getting the other person off. trust & communication to feel comfortable in saying what u want/need. having fun above anything else 🙂

29. Cuddly sex with maximum intimacy. Reaching that level of intimacy being when my partner cums inside me. God bless birth control.

30. Vanilla sex with lots of kisses and chuckling and talking. Anything else makes me feel like I’m exercising but I would much prefer actual exercise.

31. Connection. Passion. Respect. An open mind.

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33. Good- I have a good orgasm

    Great- we come at the same time *or* I have many good orgasms

    Amazing- we come at the same time *and* I have many good orgasms

34. Pleasure, passion and ideally an orgasm. Which I get with my bf. No matter the position or rhythm I am in heaven when we have sex lol

35. When ur brains are so engaged that it makes ur orgasms explosive.

36. Orgasms aren’t the most important to me. They definitely still happen but that’s not what makes sex good. To me it’s if you’re having fun with it (trying new things or just being generally passionate) and building intimacy