Wondering how many of you are married to someone who do not laugh at the same things as you nor share similar interests.
Honestly, this has been an insecurity of mine for some time. My husband doesn’t seem to mind it. Said that he likes that we are so different and have different things that we bring to the table. But sometimes I wonder how long this would last, and if he would eventually wish that he had married someone more similar to him. I also get particularly jealous of someone who seems to share the same interest or style that he likes. Im not sure if that’s something that I’m projecting or something I should be worried about. What can I do going forward to have a successful marriage?
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What can you do?
Engage yourself with his interests. My wife and I are pretty opposite, but we try to engage in what the other enjoys from time to time. Do I love everything she does? Absolutely not. But I love that she loves it. I love that she finds specific things funny or interesting and her passions are great to see. And I love feeling the same way we she does that to me.
My husband loves traveling more than I do but I didn’t want him to be alone so I joined him. At first, I had to adjust but slowly I started to enjoy it. We have been to different places and seeing him happy makes me happier too. You can try to get involved in activities he loves to do, communicate with him. God bless.