What characteristics do all conceited women seem to have that’s a huge turn off?

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1. Being conceited. Period

2. Feminists and being addicted to social media

3. >conceited

4. You’ll never like them as much as they like themselves. Lethal competition, in a relationship.

5. It’s the entitlement for me. Like one of the boundaries between confident and conceited is that a confident person will say “even though x happened, I’m still y” whereas a conceited person will say “I shouldn’t have to deal with x because I’m y!”

   The most common y is presumed to be attractiveness/good body, but people write themselves blank checks all the time: ‘I think I’m a total sweetheart so nobody should ever get to be mad at me’, ‘I think I’m a great listener—everyone else should ASK what my problems are so I don’t have to say’, ‘I’m completely real and honest 100% of the time—I don’t deserve to have people say anything about me that I don’t say about myself’, etc.

   Bottom line is you’re a just person. If you think you deserve to have the world and everyone in it be the way that’s most convenient for you at all times because you have y, you can spend your whole life crying about how it hasn’t panned out that way.

6. Lack of empathy.

7. Conceit… is this a trick question? LOL

8. taking photos of themselves in literally everything.