what do you do when someone you were dating comes back to you to be just friends but after a while they tell you they still like you and you specifically told them don’t like them back, but they still want to be friends? i was dating this girl but i told her that i’m just not attracted to her so we broke up and she blocked me but she unblocked me 3 weeks later and said she’s ok with being just friends (because i told her that our relationship felt forced and i like to be friends and get to know each other before i start dating )but now she sends me TikTok and IG reels saying she misses me and how she wants to kiss me but i don’t respond to them because i told her how I feel about her already but then she post on her story things like leading someone on that you know likes you is rude, but i told her how i felt about her, but she still wants to be friends. i’m asking for advice because in scenarios like this, i usually accidentally go about it the wrong way, and i don’t want to say/do the wrong thing that leads her to hurt herself because i’m gonna feel like i’m responsible for it but i also don’t want her to feel like us being friends is us getting closer to each other so we will date in the future because it’s not.
we facetime/talk occasionally but she calls me.
i don’t really feed into anything because i don’t want her to say i’m leading her on but i’m honestly torn between ghosting her or just being totally blunt about the whole situation