Men have to be the dumbest creatures. I’ve only been talking to this guy for a few days and I never feel comforting going to any guys house until we get to know each other pretty well. But the guy won’t stop asking for me to come over. No matter how many times I have said I don’t feel comforting doing that just yet. He agrees but still ask. And im tired of repeating the something. Not once has he offered to go out and doing something. I don’t need him to pay for me, I just want to get to know him. I also have said to him being that you just want to hang out at your house, if that means your just want to fuck. Say that and I can tell you im not interested in that and we can both move on. im not going to this guys house off the strength he’s truthful in saying he actual just wants to hang out. Im not fucking around and finding out.
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I’m a 53 year old man and I agree. I wouldn’t go to a woman’s house if I didn’t know her. I always insist on dates in public places (coffee houses, restaurants, etc ). I DID bring a date back to my apartment for sex because she said that’s what she WANTED to do. But that was a one off and, like I said, she asked. You’re doing the right thing.
This is reason enough to stop talking to him. There will be other guys worth your time that will want to get to know you