So I went on a date with this guy a few weeks ago and it went really well. We ended the night with a kiss and planned on seeing each other again. We continued to text a little and were planning on meeting again the following week. The following week came and he didn’t reach out at all. A couple days ago, he texted me and asked what I was doing. When I told him I was at home relaxing, he asked if I wanted to come over and relax at his house. I politely told him that as much as I would have liked to, I was going to stay home. He never responded to this text. Why do men do this? Was he upset I said no?
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He wanted to smash and you turned it down (probably a good idea when it’s that quick)
I mean y’all went on 1 date then he bailed without even being like later “oh something came up” or “I had a lot on my mind and forgot” then out of the blue he messages you talking about going to his place…
As someone else said, he probably just wanted to try get laid but didn’t want to put the effort in needed for that. If so, you didn’t lose anything of value.
lamp when he asked wyd i would’ve been like “getting ready for a date” guys are fully aware when they plan to plan another date then not bring it up again. good for you for not going over and saying no.