Nearly 23 and had sex with 11 guys, is it a lot?

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  1. I think you’re already passed or approaching the global average for lifetime sexual partners if that’s what you’re asking.

  2. Have some self respect girl. If u let others use u like that they will never want u long term. Maybe get some therapy to find out why u like to be with so many people.

  3. Do a Google search for the lifetime average number of sexual partners.

    What advice are you looking for?

  4. Is it a lot in general? That’s very relative. Is it a lot for you? That’s up to you to decide. Is it a lot in the eyes of a potential partner? Who knows dude. It just feels like a rhetorical question that you should just answer yourself

  5. Yeah. But I find it kind of hot if a girl I’m interested in has had a promiscuous phase.

  6. Those are rookie numbers for a woman in 2023. I expect women your age to be 30 plus.

  7. Wow so I mention u potentially have daddy issues and need therapy and actually wrote out some long heart felt replies and u delete them? You’re not looking for actual help or advice u just looking to hear what u wanna hear. U want people to tell u no 11 bodies is low keep living life and do u giuuuurlll. Wow pathetic.

  8. It sounds a bit high, perhaps you could be a little more selective with your sexual partners.

    At the moment it isn’t a big deal but perhaps when you get a little older, you might want to find another type of relationship and your partner would likely value it more.
    Good luck!

  9. Definitely not. I have 7 at 21 and I’ve slept with 2 ppl in the last 2 years. It just adds up overtime, especially if you’re not in long term relationships. Most of my friends have way more, and there’s nothing wrong with that

  10. In my opinion, yes. That is a fuck ton and nothing to be proud of… but hey, sex is fun so you do you 🙂

    If you were 33 I’d say it’s still a lot but not as “unheard of” either… at 22 though? That is a LOT… I’m guessing these all took place in the last 2-3 years as well, which makes it worse if I’m being blunt

  11. You have to realize, the lifetime for most people is below 10.

    I think people who sleep around know a bunch of other people who do. So they get the impression it’s more common than it is..

    I find it weird because it seems like you have to dedicate alot of time to sleeping around to rack up numbers like that.

    Makes me think the person doesn’t have any hobbies or interests outside of getting sexual attention and validation from different people.

  12. I think thats fine 21m here have had sex with 12 girls. I am trying to slow it down tho by being more selective do as long as youre just not randomly hooking up you good.

  13. Some people have more some have less. Why are you asking tho? It’s really subjective and some people would say yes and sometimes would say no

  14. For a gay guy? No.

    For a woman? Depends on what your therapist has diagnosed you with.

    Regarding average values in the population? yes, it’s about more than two times the average for your age.

  15. yes, that is a lot.
    Considering your young age, it is even more remarkable.

    I suggest you practise some constraint…

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