I (21 F) have been in a situationship for over an year now I have tried to end things with the guy many times now but he just won’t let me be I have asked him multiple times to stop texting me but he does every time and tries to love bomb me in a way. I have tried to ignore his texts but he just comes up with something that he knows I can’t ignore. I have given up on cutting him off from my life completely but I’m slowly starting to ignore his texts and like not text him first to show that I’m moving on from him but it has been very hard I miss texting him all the time but Ik this has to stop. Can you give me any suggestions as to how to move on what I can do?
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If you want it to end, you need to cut contact. Maybe in the future you can be friends (if that’s the goal) but you need to give yourself some space.
I’m not sure what the ‘something I can’t ignore’ is, but it sounds like manipulation, and if you’re stating that he’s love bombing you, then you know he is manipulating you.
If you’ve said no multiple times, and he keeps coming at you, then that’s a red flag in itself.
Why don’t you block him? It seems to me you’re not really trying that hard to stay away from him… you need to really dig deep and get him out of your life, but no one changes unless they want to. You need to take charge and do your due diligence and block him, especially if you have already told him it’s done
Block him. Delete his number.
Out of sight, out of mind.