Never thought I’d be writing this on the Internet, but here we are- basically I(F19) have still not been able to achieve orgasm with my boyfriend(M19) of 2+ years, partly due to the fact that when i get close I literally start convulsing and thrashing around. Also, whenever I’m masturbate on my own i don’t touch myself(doesn’t feel good or stimulating lol), i just syntribate(squeeze thighs together), so I think that has also made the transition hard. We’ve been sexually active for most of our relationship, and he is always so patient and willing to try anything but we haven’t had much luck. Any advice, or similar experience?
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What is he usually doing that is pushing you close and to the point of the shaking?
One of my exes was like this. Whenever I’d eat her out and get her close to finishing, I would literally have to wrap my arms around her thighs and pull her towards me to compensate for the violent shaking. That worked but it’s definitely tiring. We dabbled in bondage and that was helpful too, but we didn’t get too far with it because I suck at tying knots.