I’m in my early 20(F),still a virgin and completely straight. A lot of people said just wait for the right person so I did lol😇. I’m pretty sure I’m straight like 100℅.also I’m into ddlg kind of stuff and so on. I mean I’m pretty sure Iam craving the strong, daddy, dominant male vibes, right?. I also never had a fantasy with a girl and bla bla when I I “play with my self”. But sometimes I had a dream about girls. Sometimes about my friend (and it’s weird, I don’t have any feeling for her tho like I had a dream kissing her hundreds times cus she is so cute and I want to protect her) sometimes it’s completely strangers girl all over my dream. The dream is various in Any ways it’s could be I’d had a dream kissing girl, touching girl, fuk with the girl like lol I’m straight why do I keep had a dream like that. I’m confused, in real life I think I don’t have any interest with a girl or having that kind of stuff. But sometimes I just don’t get it why I keep having dream like that. I think I had a dream about girl more often than about man. Last night I was also had a dream touching 2 girls and jezz. I just confused❓
Edit : I don’t have any problem with LGBT being bisexual, pan, or any of that, it’s just in my religion it’s a sin and I grew up in such a God houses, even though I’m not that religiously nowadays but still… If you know what I mean
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Dreams are strange and they don’t always make sense. Hardly any of my dreams make sense either so you’re in good company. You you feel straight then you are straight, but if you happen to me not straight that would be totally ok too
Sexuality is on a spectrum. There will be multiple things in your life that ask you the question of where you consider yourself sexually. And it can be confusing especially if you aren’t 100% set on an identity.
My advice: don’t sweat it, lean into it. Take each relationship one by one, if you like someone and feel attracted, go for it.
As has been said, dreams don’t make sense so I wouldn’t be too concerned about it, but perhaps you have an underlying desire for women. It sounds, like me, you have romantic feelings for men and just sexual feelings for women, I recently had my first experience with a woman and it was just sex, her soft hairless body and no facial stubble was so lovely AND her oral skills were out of this world. I can certainly recommend it.
Edit, belated happy birthday btw 🍰