Me (19) and my girlfriend (19) have been together just under a year now and we have always had a good sex life from get go and have both been extremly open and honest about what we want and like and how we like it ect
And not to toot my own horn but i love giving her oral and i think ive gotten the technique down along with other things
But recently we are exploring to more kinkier things some of you may think restraints isnt that kinky but i think its a good first step
We have tried tying her hands up and stuff before but we both decided to invest together in something more proper so we ended up getting restraints that go under the matress and then you can tie up both hands and legs on the bed
Let me just say we obviously had to have a test run and the sex was amazing i know it was for me and she also said it was to and then we both had a long nap afterwards for about an hour as it had took alot out of us cause we went at it for awhile , and i have no reason to not believe her if she also said it was amazing
Anyway i was just wondering if anyone has any suggestions to fun things we can try with this new purchase
Were planning on getting more things eventually but just for now we got this , and were both really into tying up and stuff and shes usually the submissive and im usually the dom ect all though i have expressed to her i do like being submissive every now and then and she also likes to rarely be a dom herself so i think we have a really good balance and things for the future are looking good as we both really enjoy exploring sexually
Also just as a side note , i may this might not be ethically right but we both really get of on the idea of having sex in public but we havemt tried it yet so if you guys have any suggestions on how to do that safely please do feel free to shar
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I love sensory play with restraints like that. You can change it up to by laying face up and then face down. We have a variety of options to use. You can do temperature changes by using ice or safe for sex drip candles, or I like using a glass dildo that’s been in the freezer. Then you have things like feathers, riding crops, small paddles, hair brushes, little sensory wheels, leather floggers. I also have an ultraviolet wand that does little electric shocks. All of this while blindfolded. We like to mix in sex with it as well. Mouths and fingers work great. A selection of vibrators and other toys are nice as well. Don’t be afraid of exploring each others bodies, including ass play.