I was just barely starting to see this girl. I was thinking about making her my girlfriend but she wouldn’t let me go down on her. We had sex but it was kind of mundane. Mostly cause I wasn’t able to make her go crazy first and I kinda just busted my nut. Also she’s very adamant about me not going down, she even got kind of mad for me trying. I’m the kind of person that wants to please their person and if I feel like I can’t do that then it’s gonna kill it for me.
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Everyone is different. Some people just don’t like it. You can do other things to make them “crazy”. Some like hands/fingers instead for example.
If they don’t like any foreplay then that’s a bit weird and I would be curious as to why more than anything.
Trauma maybe you need to ask if she’s willing to open up about it.
Find out why she doesn’t like it, if it’s legit or if it’s caused by shame and embarrassment. If it turns out she just really doesn’t like it I’d cut her loose. She belongs with someone that doesn’t do that and you belong with someone that loves it.
No, I wouldn’t date someone that doesn’t allow oral. I don’t know how old she is, but that could be a factor or something else of course. Try to talk to her about it.. the way that conversation goes might be very telling about how other situations will play out in your relationship as well.
Yes I’m better with my fingers and don’t really care for eating girls out I only do it because I enjoy getting them off as many times as possible and that take changing the sensation sometimes.
Ask her why does doesn’t like it
Preferable honestly.