Hey so I have a girl who’s obsessed with me and we always talk about meeting up and having sex but I always bail on the plans because I get the feeling she is just using the sex as a trap card, and that it’s not a mutual desire. I understand that women really only get turned on when the emotional element is there. I don’t want to pound this girl and then have to ghost her because she won’t stop asking about a relationship. I can’t really take further action by asking her about it because she will just lie to me.
statistically, what are the odds that she doesn’t actually want this sex?
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You’re being a touch patronizing. Assuming she’s an adult, she’s fully capable of making her own sexual decisions. You have to take what she says at face value…..
I was that girl once so believe her 😌
Sometimes we just want to have a little fun, try something and fuck, nothing more.
Sometimes women just want to have sex too. The emotional component isn’t always necessary believe it or not. However, if you don’t believe her and are worried, don’t have sex with her.
Not all women are the same?? she really could just be wanting to fuck. if she does end up wanting a relationship, you could just tell her straight up. you owe it to both of yall to be open and honest.