As the title says, how can I stop overthinking my current girlfriend texting and calling guy friends on the phone? I get so uncomfortable when I see her texting them, DM’ing on Instagram and glancing over at her phone and see phone calls with them in her LINE messenger chats. (I have never gone through her phone by the way, only see glances as she can leave her phone screen on for a few seconds with LINE open)
For context I have met these guy friends, mostly, but still have a hard time rationalising the phone calling in particular – is this something I should worry about?
I have no right to ask her what they spoke about or prod to find out simply because I saw it on her phone and uncomfortable, but it does make me overthink and start acting a bit weird towards her as I don’t know why they were talking about and she doesn’t really tell me about it either. Also the texting side doesn’t help because it’s mostly in Japanese and I can’t understand any of it. And yes I know, insecure as heck but I just need some outside perspectives