I’m hoping to get a female perspective here, but all advice is welcome!
So I have never had sex before. All I know has been through watching porn primarily. I’m a few months in with my long-distance gf, but she’s coming to visit soon. She has made it very clear that she wants to get intimate and we’ve been sexting a bit here and there. Now, the thought of being intimate scares the shit out of me bc I’ve grown up in a very conservative culture that doesn’t really accept any of this. So I’ve tried to push myself out my comfort zone and went to second base with my gf while she was with me before she left.
While I’m not sure I’ll go all the way with her when she comes back, I definitely want to give her the best possible experience. I want to make sure I make her feel comfortable, good, and make her have fun. Since my experience is mostly limited to watching passionate/sensual porn, I wanted to ask for advice on first time tips. What should I do make her feel great? How do I please her to the point where she forgets that I’m a virgin? One idea I have is to buy massage oil and give her a massage with relaxing music and such.
With us being long distance, we got some pent-up horniness to let out lol. At the end of the day, my focus and objective is to make her as happy as possible and genuinely enjoy herself throughout the experience. So any and all advice is sincerely appreciated, and thank you in advance for taking the time to respond!
TL;DR: I’m a virgin and my long-distance gf is coming to visit soon. I want to give her the best possible experience and make sure she feels great and is happy. Any bedroom/intimacy tips are greatly appreciated!