In retrospect what do you think were the traits, physical features, personality types that made you obsessed with someone?

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1. Face scar. Caused a primal bonding for me lol.

2. Daddy stache, big hands, and take no shit attitude. I miss him sometimes but we can’t be together.

3. Tall, rugged and handsome but not arrogant or toxic, very smart and just the right amount of enthusiastic geekiness

4. In my early dating years, any combination of not interested in me, out of my league hot, and carrying baggage that is beyond the ability of any one woman to unpack and resolve.

   Right now? Still kinda sorting it out tbh.

5. I like them emotionally unavailable with really nice arms. 🥵

6. There’s something, like a weird exhalation noise after laughing that makes me fall for some reason xD

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8. Dense af hair , a bit taller than me, kinda lean not too muscular body, fair to wheatish skin tone, successful or doing well in all areas of life, emotionally available but not too available lmaooo.

9. Their emotional “brokenness”. I love when people share their vulnerabilities. It’s like a drug to me.

10. Handsome in a really average way, if that makes any sense at all. Faces that are nice to look at, but nothing movie star handsome.

    Kinda awkward but in a dry, funny, slightly sarcastic way. Think British. Slightly distant but balanced with banter. I like guys who can take the piss outta me.

11. Tall, dom, intelligent.

12. I’m a sucker for pretty eyes and a strong jawline. I also like those moody brooding types. One of my ex’s had all that plus a love for plants and a motorcycle. It was very hot. It also did not last long. Oh well lol. Live and learn.

13. A family man- tall, strong arms, provide for me and protect me, have good relationship with his family (family oriented is important for me), have a stable job, don’t drink/smoke/do drugs/gamble.

14. emotionally unavailable, deep voice and nice hands😂 i like a challenge unfortunately, not someone who gives their kindness to me easily. I’m a mess

15. When they let me down they way my parents do😍😍

16. The entire allure was that I couldn’t “have” Him.

    I guess the Host of the party We met at had Her eyes set. But I am somewhat competitive & hate being told what to do. So I was intent on being a cock blocking menace.. until He showed Me his smile. Then it was the icy blue eyes. & then I was pregnant. Lmfao.

17. Muscular types (built like a viking)
    But kind of a softie inside

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19. Big ASS!! Jiggly, juicy, has to get bigger pants to accommodate, slapable, fatty, muscular, all of it.

20. Physical features – porn stache and mullet
    Personality – dirty old redneck with a great sense of humour

21. I used to get obsessed with guys that had qualities I lacked: conventional attractiveness, natural charisma, effortless confidence and sharp, noticeable intellect. The types of people that turned heads—I always dreamed of being one of them. Now I’m too much of a hermit to get obsessed with anyone lol.

22. Thick beard, handsome, nerdy, deep voice, big lips, protective, dreamy eyes, smelled like the forest 😩