My friends always plan some activity but they don’t invite me. Somehow i usually end up calling them for some other stuff and they’re reminded of my existence, then they invite me for the earlier mentioned activities.
I feel like i wasn’t really a part of their plans and they’re making a pity invite or inviting me out of obligation and i make up some excuse to skip the whole thing. At the same time i feel like I’ve been saying no to their plans all the time.
I’m confused now, what should I do?
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Maybe they did invite you. Did the plan already happen before you called them?
Yikes well personally I would feel left out and unwanted especially if it’s close friends. Like if it’s something they deem as something I wouldn’t like then I don’t mind not getting invited.
I would keep tabs on them and see if it’s worth continuing the friendship.