I’ve (18f) been with my partner for a couple of years now and for the most part we have a pretty fulfilling sex life.
Except for the fact that I have never been able to achieve orgasm with him.
I’ve tried everything, long oral sessions, vibrators, telling him what I like, etc.
I’ve always been able to cum while masturbating alone but even if I get myself off doing the same things I’d usually do I can’t do it when he’s around.
Hell, I’ve been relaxed enough to fully enjoy anal.
It might be psychological(? I mean, I have sort of low self esteem but I don’t think it’s enough for it to be such a big mental barrier. I doesn’t feel that way.
So what’s wrong with me?
All answers are welcome but have any women particularly gone through this? How did you overCUM it?
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First of all it is perfectly normal to not achieve orgasm from PIV its a really common issue and there will be tons of lady’s that will say just that.
In fact between 70 percent to 90 percent of women are unable to achieve orgasm with penetration alone.
The highest percentage of women gain orgasm while on top.
You could try mixing it up a little, try using toys while he’s fucking you, try anal beads anal toys, or even use a cock ring with a vibration setting to stimulate your clit while he’s going Inside you.
It could be psychological like you said the fact you brought that up means you have some repressed emotions about yourself, but again I wouldn’t be to worry about it as a large amount of women just can’t reach climax.