I recently lost my virginity and the first time I had sex I felt nothing at all. It’s been over 7 months now and me and my bf have sex often but I don’t feel anything no matter the position. He recently got me a viabrator and it feels great but I have to put a lot of pressure on my clit. But anytime anything is inside I can tell it’s there but I don’t feel anything I’m numb. Sometimes when we have sex for a really long time especially when I’m on top I can’t even tell if he’s in me anymore. Any tips or ideas on what could be happening?
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Have you spoken with your gyno about this?
You should def see a gyno, but not bc you can’t feel anything. Many women get the most/all their pleasure during sex from clitoral stimulation, so that might not necessarily be an issue.
It’s just good health hygiene to get checked out regularly by a gynecologist, esp when you being sexually active. Kinda like seeing the dentist every 6 mo when your teeth come in 🙂
The inside of a vagina doesn’t have many nerve endings, being a birth canal. Most women feel things on the outside, but I would get checked out by a gyn anyway. Sometimes, when you very wet and excited, you can hardly feel anything inside, so many women rub their clit during intercourse to get a more intense sensation.